08/05/10

Taça de Portugal

Por que razão ganhou o CCO (Clube de Corfebol de Oeiras) a Taça de Portugal?
Simplesmente porque é o melhor clube nacional!!!
CCO allez, CCO allez, CCO allez!!!

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06/05/10

To hate

Y is it so hard to hate someone you cared about?
It may have been a lover, a close friend, a not-so-close friend, even someone from your family, but it was someone for whom you cared about, somewhere along your life. And that someone did something to you that you really hated, that really pissed you off, that you considered disrespectful given the feelings you had.
You decide to sever the ties that connect you to that person. If possible, you will not speak to him/her. You will have no interaction whatsoever.
You are really hurt and you hate that person. Not the person per se, but his/her action(s). But aren't people defined by what they do?
Still, hate is very different from love. You cannot choose who you love, even though sometimes it would be great if you could. But you can choose to hate someone. And maybe the answer to my question lies here. When you choose to hate, you dedicate yourself to doing that. But how committed are you in doing so? For how long? If you cared for the person, do you really want to hate him/her? And what if you still bear those feelings? Are love and hate compatible?
If you are a normal, regular, sane person, no, they are not compatible. And love will always win, whether it takes one day, one month or one lifetime.
So, don't waste your time hating someone you care(d) about, because in the end all that hatred will disappear and you'll end up realizing you wasted your time and maybe lost the opportunity to have a good relationship with someone.

03/05/10

The fall

Y are most people so afraid of falling?
Yes, falling, and not failing. You fall, you may or may not get hurt, but at least you took the chance. Isn't it better than just thinking "what if?"?
Besides, pain is good. It means you're able to feel it, that you're alive and have the will to live. Also, the body is able to heal.
So, next time you think about trying something, stop thinking about it and just do it. Safely. :D

02/05/10

Truth or dare

Y can't we understand each other?
The Human species uses dozens (is it hundreds?) of different languages to communicate. Still, two people speaking the same language may well misunderstand each other completely. Why is this? Why can't all people just say what's on their mind? Why can't everybody just be straightforward? You may say some things that are hard to hear... You may hurt some feelings... But at least your honest. Is it better to lie? To hide? To deceit? Maybe, for the person who's listening. But what about the one who's saying it (or not saying it)? Perhaps that person is missing out on something big, something important... The opportunity to be happy, and/or to be loved.
Life may be easier avoiding conflicts and not saying certain things, but I'll have it plain, complicated, as it is. I'll say what I have to say, when I have to say it, to whoever I have to say it. With one exception.